This exceptional book is hard to describe – a stream-of-consciousness memoir, perhaps, featuring electrifying honesty. There are questions like why does she write? There are letters to a silent sister. And there is profound melancholy when acknowledging the suicides of her father and sister (Page 31: “I was crazy with grief, guilt and dread”). But there are very funny excerpts about a European trip in 1988, and hilarious observations about the current domestic life in her multi-generational Toronto home. Bottom line- this is a powerful story that is both heart wrenching and joyful, in other words, Ms. Toews at her best.
Category: grief
The Homemade God – Rachel Joyce
Ms. Joyce is an exquisite writer, and this book is one of her best (along with The Music Shop). Four siblings travel to Italy because of the unexpected death of their father. At the Lake villa, they also meet the much younger woman their father has married recently. This is a relationship story, about fragile familial bonds, the paralysis of grief, about beauty and pain. The writing is beautiful and very evocative, so be warned: tears will emerge. Overall, this is a moving, insightful and imaginative story with a brilliant ending. Highly recommended.
Remarkably Bright Creatures – Shelby Van Pelt
Tova is a 70-year-old widow grieving the recent death of her husband and the disappearance and presumed death of her son more than 30 years ago. At its core, this is a relationship story, and remarkably, a key relationship is with Marcellus … a giant Pacific octopus living in a Washington State aquarium. The storyline sometimes come perilously close to the plot of a soap opera (there is a happy ending, after all) but remains a charming and witty story.
Tell Me Everything – Elizabeth Strout
Sometimes a new book by a favourite author can only be described as an exquisite pleasure. Ms. Strout’s novel returns to the town of Crosby Maine with a beloved cast of characters: the iconic Olive Kitteridge, lawyer Bob Burgess, and the author Lucy Barton. This is a story of empathy and pathos; the intimacy of shared stories and experiences; the importance of being seen so one’s life is not unrecorded; the paralysis of grief; the relationship between friendship and love; loneliness, sadness and beauty; and finally the significance of the very human desire to leave a mark on the world.
Before The Coffee Gets Cold – Toshikazu Kawaguchi
A small basement cafe in Tokyo offers time travel, to travel back in time subject to specific rules. For example, nothing that is done in the past can change the present, and the duration of the trip is brief, limited to as long as it takes for a cup of coffee to become cold. Given these profound constraints, what is fascinating is the motivation for time travel as explored in four scenarios. Thanks Amy, for this book.
Denison Avenue – Christina Wong
A haunting portrayal of the gentrification of Toronto’s Chinatown-Kensington Market, told from the viewpoint of an elderly Chinese-Canadian woman, Wang Cho Sum. After the heartbreaking death of her husband in a hit-and-run accident, Cho Sum copes with grief by collecting recyclables. Loss is everywhere: shops closing, loss of the Toisan dialect. How can you build a new life when elders are dismissed and discarded? The moving prose is accompanied by beautifully-rendered black-and-white drawings by David Innes. This book should be a powerful contender for Canada Reads, championed by Naheed Nenshi.
The Fake – Zoe Whittall
Full disclosure – this is a superb relationship book, my favourite genre. Shelby meets Cammie at a grief support group. Shelby is grieving the sudden death of her wife; Cammie is recovering from cancer and many other apparent calamities. Gibson is recently divorced, meets Cammie in a bar and falls in love. But what if Cammie is a lying psychopath, a consummate con person? And what does it say about the psychology of Shelby and Gibson that they can be so profoundly manipulated? Finally, the ending of this book is sublime in its simplicity: highly recommended.
Bad Cree – Jessica Johns
This remarkable debut novel is all about Indigenous women. Mackenzie is a young Cree woman living in Vancouver, but darkness dreams drive her to return to her home on High Prairie, Alberta, in part to confront her unprocessed grief over the death of her older sister. Can spirits visit people in their dreams? Can evil entities feed off the hurt, isolated and grieving? This is both a masterful mystery and horror story that will forever change your appreciation of the phrase “murder of crows”. Highly recommended.
Maureen – Rachel Joyce
In the first book of a trilogy, Harold Fry embarks on a walking pilgrimage to see his dieing friend Queenie. The second book details Queenie’s backstory. And now the trilogy is completed with a novel about Maureen, Harold’s wife, setting out on another journey. Maureen is difficult and damaged, both judgemental and unlikeable. In fact, she is dealing with unprocessed grief over a death that occurred more than 30 years previously. There is a profoundly moving finale with emotional impact: self-discovery and forgiveness and the question – can grief be appropriated? All three books are wonderful; The Music Shop is an unrelated gem.
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