Ostensibly, this is a missing person mystery: a father goes missing from a Korean-American family (wife, three children). What elevates this story is a unique point-of-view, emphasizing the family impact. Why do people do and say what they do? For a family in crisis, there are many discussions on cognitive psychology. What if suspicion falls on the youngest son who is non-verbal because of autism and Angelman Syndrome? Questions of loss, language and the expectations and assumptions regarding communication abound. Finally, the ending is somewhat enigmatic, as is real life.
Category: family
Happy-Go-Lucky – David Sedaris
And now for something entirely different: a collection of mostly humorous essays. Sedaris offers wry observations on many topics (e.g., pandemic experiences) but his most poignant essays are about his family relationships, most notably with his elderly father. He is candid and self-deprecating, with the use of wonderful words (one-downsmanship) and phrases (crocheted blanket the colour of sorrow). A very fun read.
The Mountains Sing – Nguyen Phau Que Mai
A sweeping saga of Viet Nam told as stories a grandmother tells her granddaughter. The context is the North, mainly from the 1930s to the 80s. Conflicts abound: internal (north versus south) and external (French, Japanese, American influences). But at its core, this story is about the extreme actions a mother takes to ensure survival of her children.
Fayne – Ann-Marie MacDonald
Full disclosure: this sweeping sage is long (722 pages) but Ms. MacDonald’s exquisite writing makes the reading very worthwhile. The setting: Fayne, an estate straddling the border between England and Scotland. The time: late 19th century. The main players: Lord Henry Bell and wife Mae, and children Charles and Charlotte. The story is rife with family secrets, with cruelty and cowardice in male-female and father-child relationships. A shifting timeline accentuates the drama: highly recommended.
PS: A-MM wrote the wonderful Fall On Your Knees a long time ago.
Homecoming – Kate Morton
In 2018, Jess is an almost 40-year-old who returns to Australia because her elderly grandmother Nora has been hospitalized after a serious fall. At Nora’s house, Jess learns about the Turner Family Tragedy of 1959: the death of Nora’s sister-in-law and her three children in South Australia. Is this a murder-suicide by a distraught mother? What are the family lies designed to protect the ones we love? The story becomes an exciting crime drama that is a compelling read.
Junie – Chelene Knight
First, the context: East-end Vancouver from 1933-39, an area called Hogan’s Alley which is home to Black and immigrant communities. At its core, this brilliant book is about complex mother-daughter relationships: Junie and her jazz singer mother Maddie, and Estelle and her mother Faye. As Junie progresses from age 13-19, her artistic talents bloom despite a disquieting reality. Thanks Amy, for this recommendation: highly recommended.
The Night Travelers – Armando Lucas Correa
An angst-filled story of 4 generations of women: sometimes daughters have to be sent away to save them. What are the motivations of the mothers? Lilith, an 8-year-old mixed-race child (mischling), is sent from Germany to Cuba in 1939. Her daughter, Nadine, is born in 1959 in the midst of the Cuban Revolution and must be sent to the USA at age 3. Nadine and her daughter Luna complete the research of family endurance and sacrifice.
The Winners – Fredrik Backman
This fabulous and long (670 pages) book concludes a trilogy: previous books were Beartown and Us Against You. Backman’s writing is both heart-warming and heart-wrenching. Two remote forest towns (in Sweden but could be Canada) are intense rivals in hockey and politics. There are two funerals, impending violence and intimidation, and a ferocious summer storm. Backman’s writing is often philosophical: what it means to experience fear, for example. Be warned, the story is very emotional with complicated relationships, especially within families; expect to experience extreme sadness (and tears) when confronting loyalty, friendship and loss.
This Is How We Love – Lisa Moore
Ms. Moore is a very fine writer (February, Caught) but this is her best book to date. A multi-generational story set in St. John’s creates a superb relationship book, of mothers mostly and children who are loved, neglected, lost and re-found. What makes a family? Do we ever really choose who we love? Warning: there is violence, a stabbing. And much of the story takes place in a legendary winter storm, a snow-mageddon! Overall: a rich tapestry of the sacrifice, pain and joy of loving, for tour-de-force storytelling.
